About Your Coach
Meet Rian Kansiime
The woman who chose to rewrite her story. Her guiding motto? "Don't get bitter, get better."
Six years ago, she traded a promising HR career for something far more valuable: her own truth. Stepping away from a path that required her to shrink, she launched her life coaching business to show others what living authentically actually looks like. Navigating the journey as a devoted mother to three incredible kids and rebuilding her life post-divorce over the last two years, she is proof that your hardest chapters can become your greatest strength.
My Story & Approach to Coaching
I know what it feels like to lose yourself in a dynamic you didn't see coming. To carry heavy emotional weight for years and to rebuild your life from the ground up. I don't coach from a textbook, I coach from a place of deep, lived understanding.
Growing up, I learned to believe that my value was tied entirely to what I could do for others—that to earn love, I had to be useful and over-give, always placing my own needs last.
Unsurprisingly, I brought that exact blueprint into my marriage. For years, I juggled three young children and a home while trying to sustain a crumbling relationship, over-giving until I was completely empty and believing that life was simply meant to be heavy and miserable.
Rebuilding my life from the ground up taught me that my worth was never something I had to earn, and that our deepest pain doesn't have to be the end of our story. Today, as a life coach, I use my lived experience to hold a space of total empathy and understanding for you—helping you untangle old patterns, reclaim your self-worth, and build a life anchored in true peace.
Qualifications
My real-world credentials are backed by deep professional training and profound spiritual wisdom. Beyond my background in HR and talent development, I am a certified Life Coach trained in emotional regulation, personal transformation, and trauma-informed practices. I integrate timeless spiritual principles into my work, offering a holistic path to inner clarity and healing. But my greatest qualification isn't just the certificates on my wall—it's the real-life work of walking through fire, rebuilding from scratch, and actively applying these tools to my own life every single day.
- •Former HR Professional: Years of expertise in human dynamics, personal growth, and active listening.
- •Certified Life Coach: Specialising in navigating childhood trauma, major life transitions such as parenting, identity shifts, boundary setting, emotional resilience and personal empowerment.
- •Spiritual & Intuitive Guidance: Integrating sacred wisdom and spiritual principles to help you align with your higher self and true purpose.
- •Trauma-Informed Approach: Deeply committed to creating a safe, grounded space for healing emotional pain at the root.
When I'm Not Coaching
Once you tear me away from my clients, you'll find me soaking up quality time with my three kids, getting lost in poetry, or hitting the trails for a good hike. And when I need a true reset? I'm chasing an adrenaline rush—usually tearing up the go-kart track with my closest friends.
Hitting the trails
Quality time with my kids
Getting lost in poetry
Chasing adrenaline on the go-kart track
Soaking up the calm at the Garden Cafe